The thrill of checking off goals. The high of reaching new milestones. The joy of living a comfortable lifestyle afforded by your six-figure salary. Success has been good to you!
But somewhere along the line—maybe between answering another 11:00 pm work email or battling another migraine—you’ve realized your success has also come at a cost. And the stress no longer feels worth it.
You often spend them by the dim light of your laptop. Overtime isn’t technically in your job description, but the idea of logging off at 5:00 pm is laughable.
What’s that?! If it doesn’t take you an hour to nod off each night, you regularly wake up around 3:00 am with racing thoughts about the demands of your job.
Sure, your body is on the beach. But your mind is back at the office, replaying meeting conversations or bracing for the 3,975 emails that will be waiting in your inbox when you return.
You’ve thought about quitting more times than you can count, but you always revert to the same motto:
Even if it means ignoring your body’s alarm bells, you push yourself to the point of physical and emotional depletion. Because if you stop performing, proving, or people-pleasing, won’t you become replaceable?*
*says your pesky imposter syndrome.
You can’t simply tell yourself, “Just try harder” or “Just push through the stress.” You have to slow down and get to the root cause of the problem:
They're all physical manifestations of a body in stress.
It’s only when you learn how to rewire your nervous system (instead of overriding it) that you can rewire old stress patterns.
I help high achievers rewire their stress response at the root, so stress fuels them instead of draining them.
The goal isn’t to avoid or eliminate all stress. Not only is this completely unrealistic, but it’s also unnecessary.
It can even be a catalyst for focus and growth. The key is to create a healthier relationship with stress, so it goes from feeling like a liability to a leadership advantage.
I was having wild success at work in terms of impact and growth. But I was feeling really overwhelmed by it all, and I kept worrying that the bigger the impact and growth, the more I'd find myself past my growth curve and incapable of sustaining the success.
Alison really helped me identify the mindsets and physiology that were holding me back and impacting my effectiveness in my work. Honestly, I wouldn't have made it through the leadership challenges I led through if it weren't for my work with Alison. Working with her transformed me as a leader and person, and the work that I do in this world.
— Jessie Pocock, Former CEO and Executive Director, Inside Out Youth Services
Instead of constantly pushing through, you’ll discover a calm, steady space where you can stop moving so fast, thinking so hard, and trying so intently to hold it all together.
You’ll still have your drive (of course!) … But now stress won’t have the same hold over you. And when your body begs you to pause, you’ll have the confidence to rest without guilt.
THE DO STRESS BETTER™ TRANSFORMATION:
Navigate high-stress situations with greater calm, clarity, and confidence. (Those packed boardrooms and ridiculous deadlines? So much easier to manage.)
Slow down without feeling shame or worry that you’ll be replaced. (PSA: Your worth isn’t attached to being in constant crush mode.)
Create boundaries that protect your precious time, energy, and sanity. (You can turn in your People Pleaser Badge of Honor now.)
Be truly present during family vacations. (Because it’s so much more fun having sand in your toes than sand in your laptop.)
Have you ever noticed how you always seem to react to stress in a certain way? It’s more than just a coincidence. It’s a deeply ingrained, habitual stress pattern.
Take this free quiz to discover your default stress style—and tailored feedback based on your results. Because knowing your patterns is an important first step to changing the way you respond to stress.
(Psst. You’re busy. I get it! That’s why this quiz will only take you 2 to 3 minutes to complete.)
Something deep inside you knows that what got you here—all the hustling, grinding, and sacrificing—isn’t sustainable. You’re ready for a new definition of success that includes more joy, meaning, and self-compassion.
It’s about a deeper, more permanent shift where you’ll learn how to listen to your body, rewire your nervous system, and free yourself of self-destructive stress patterns.